a response to izyan's blog...will i marry u?

i'm not the best to give you the answer..but i'll try my best..

u ask for an online test right?
let me give you questions as a pre-test..

1) what drives your desire for marriage?
peer pressure jerk? sbb nak bina baitulmuslim?

2) when is the ideal time for you?
bile jumpa org yg sesuai? bila-bila? bila dh kerja?

3) what is marriage for you?
just sharing your life with someone else? pertambahan tanggungjawab? satu ibadah?

4) why do you want to get married?
sbb nk anak? sbb best tgk org lain kawen? sbb ALLAH?

5) to whom shall you be married?
anak org kaya? the most handsome guy in the universe? someone religious?

6) kalo ada org ajak kawen..what is your reaction?
okay...? bagi saya masa fikir? gilo ke apa ko nih..taknak aku kawen skrg..?

7) why are you ready to give up everything to a person whom will be called your
husband?
sbb dia husband saya? sbb he is now my family? sbb ALLAH suruh sy taat kpd suami?


honestly..
after considering all the question and options above..when someone pop up the question..jom kawen..will you cansider the question atau terus freak out?
kalo rase..ala..jgn la tanya lagi soklan tu..i just want to know either i'm ready or not..tak tau ready ke tak..mcm mana nak jawab..kalo kita rase..kalo esok ader org ajak kawen n kita trus takut..then it is obvious..kta blum bersedia..tapi..kalo kita kata..i'll consider it..its a preliminary sign..u r ready to take a new step..

and..
a friend of mine selalu ingatkan..
sbnrnya..
org yg bertanya tu lbih tahu jawapan kpd soklan dia..
so bile u try to answer the questions above..
you might get the answer..
an answer yg blh satisfy your curiosity..


kesimpulannya..
the best way 4 me is..
bile ader org tanya nak kawen..
tapi kita tak tau kita ready ke tak..
atau takder org tanya..tapi nak tau gak kita dh ready ker belum..
buat la istikarah..
tanya Yang Maha Mengetahui..
adakah kita dah ready nak kawen..dan adakah betul yang bertanya tu jodoh kita..
hanya ALLAH yang MAHA mengetahui..
the best answer come from the best knower..
so..
ask HIM..
either u r ready or not..
jwpn ni adalah jawapan terakhir pada segala jawapan yg blh timbulkan persoalan..
sbb true..
takkan ader jawapan yg perfect selagi mana kita tak kembali kepada yang maha sempurna..

dakara..
izyan..
kalo nk tahu dah ready ke belum...
buat la istikarah..
tak semestinya bila dah ada org tanya br nk buat istikarah kan?
istikarah dilakukan utk mendapat petunjuk..
so..tak rugi kalo kita tanya soklan tu pada ALLAH..
no matter how silly the question is..
ALLAH akan ttp dengar rintihan hambaNYA...
so just give a try and ask HIM..

i might try to answer it..
but my answer wont be as perfect as his..
(i wrote a very long answer kat draft..but i wont reveal it to others..only for carbrians :) )

tu jerk..
maaf kalo tk memuaskan ati...